FAQ

 FAQ – About Me & The Blog

Q: Who are you and what’s this blog about?

A: Hi! My name is Carin and I’m a writer, mom lifestyle blogger, and vlogger. I’m here to share my experiences as a mom, navigating everyday life and raising a child on the spectrum. I’m not about the super aesthetic mom life, nor am I the bare minimum type. I’m just a regular mom who loves finding affordable resources and sharing them with you.

Q: What kind of content can I expect from your blog?

A: You’ll find a variety of content focused on affordable products, resources for new moms, and tips for parents of children on the spectrum. I’ll be sharing what I’ve learned, what works, and how I make this parenting journey work—without breaking the bank.

Q: Is this blog just for parents with kids on the spectrum?

A: While I do focus on resources for parents of kids on the spectrum, this blog is for any parent looking for budget-friendly tips, advice, and resources. It’s all about making parenting easier, no matter what stage you’re in.

Q: Will your posts be all about your personal experience?

A: Yes and no! Most of the content you see will be based on my own experiences, but I also share useful resources I’ve found or used along the way. This blog is meant to help others navigate parenting with shortcuts and info I’ve already learned.

Q: What makes your blog different from others?

A: My blog is all about being real. I’m not perfect, and I’m definitely not about showing an unrealistic “mom life.” I’m just here to give you practical advice and helpful resources from my personal journey—no fluff or pressure, just genuine experiences and tips.

Q: Is there anything you focus on specifically?

A: Yes! You’ll see a lot of content that’s tailored to helping parents on a budget, especially those with little ones on the spectrum. Whether you need parenting tips, product recommendations, or just a space to relate, you’ll find it here.

C-Section Awareness: Honoring Every Birth Story

 C-Section Awareness: Understanding, Supporting, and Empowering Mamas

Hey, mama! Let’s talk about C-sections—a topic that doesn’t always get the recognition or support it deserves. Whether you had a C-section by choice, necessity, or unexpected circumstances, it’s a major part of your birth story. And guess what? It’s just as valid as any other birth experience.

I want to dive into C-section awareness because too often, there’s a stigma around it. Some people might even say things like, “That’s not a real birth” or “You didn’t go through the real experience.” But I’m here to tell you: a C-section is just as real, just as valid, and just as powerful as any other birth story. Let’s break it down and talk about the facts, the feelings, and the healing process.

What Is a C-Section?

A C-section, or cesarean section, is a surgical procedure used to deliver a baby through incisions made in the mother’s abdomen and uterus. While this is often seen as a last resort, sometimes it’s the safest way to bring your baby into the world. It can be planned in advance, or it can happen unexpectedly if there are complications during labor.

Some reasons for needing a C-section might include:

• Breech baby (when the baby is positioned feet-first)
• Fetal distress (when the baby shows signs of not getting enough oxygen)
• Placenta previa (when the placenta covers the cervix)
• Multiple babies (twins, triplets, etc.)
• Labor not progressing or complications like cord prolapse

Whatever the reason, your C-section was the best choice for you and your baby at that moment—and that’s something to be proud of.

Breaking the Stigma Around C-Sections

Unfortunately, there’s a lot of stigma that comes with having a C-section. I’ve seen it in social media groups, in conversations, and even in hospital settings. It’s disheartening when people say things like, "It wasn’t a real birth," or "You didn’t experience what most women do."

But here’s the truth: your birth is YOURS. Whether you delivered vaginally, had a C-section, or anything in between, it’s your experience, and no one else has the right to downplay it. Every mama has her own unique journey, and we should all be supporting each other, not tearing each other down.

C-sections are real births—they require immense courage, strength, and healing. The recovery is no joke, and the emotional journey is often just as intense as any other birth. Let’s honor that.

The Healing Process: Physically and Emotionally

When it comes to healing after a C-section, it’s important to remember that it’s a major surgery. Your body has been through a lot, and recovery takes time—sometimes more time than we expect.

Physically, you’ll need to take it slow. Don’t rush back into daily activities or exercise too soon. Listen to your body, and give yourself permission to rest. The pain, swelling, and incision site will heal, but it takes time. You might also experience some emotional effects, especially if you didn’t plan for a C-section or if it wasn’t part of your “birth plan.”

Mentally, it’s okay to feel a range of emotions. You might experience feelings of disappointment, grief, or even guilt. Those feelings are valid. It’s okay to mourn the birth you wanted and to feel frustrated that things didn’t go as planned. But you are not alone in these feelings. So many women have walked this path, and there’s a whole community of mamas who understand what you’re going through.

Supporting C-Section Mamas

If you know someone who has had a C-section, be sure to offer support, not judgment. Whether it’s sending a kind message, offering to help with meals or chores, or just being a listening ear, your support can make a world of difference. And if you’re a mama who has had a C-section, know that your feelings are valid, and your journey is powerful.

The Bottom Line

A C-section is not less of a birth experience—it’s a powerful and valid way to bring your baby into this world. Let’s work to change the conversation, uplift C-section mamas, and remind them that their strength, resilience, and love for their babies are what truly matter. Every birth experience is different, and that’s what makes it so special. No one’s birth story is the same, and that’s okay. What matters most is that we support each other, share our stories, and continue to empower one another.

If you’ve had a C-section, share your story! You are strong—and you are not alone. 💕

You’re a warrior, mama, and your journey is beautiful.

about me

Hey, I'm Carin  a Black mom on a budget just tryna do the best I can for my family. I’m also navigating this whole autism journey with my little one, and I know how hard it can be when resources are limited. That’s why I started this blog—to connect with other parents out here doing the same thing, trying to make it work without breaking the bank. I’m here to share all the tips, tricks, and resources I’ve picked up along the way to help low-income families and anyone who needs it. We all deserve the best for our kids, no matter where we’re starting from, and I’m just here to make this journey a little easier for all of us. You got this, and I got you!

Tips to start cloth diapering

 Cloth Diapers: Building Your Perfect Collection and Making It Work for You

Cloth diapering can be a rewarding experience, but it can also be overwhelming when you're just starting out. With so many options available, it’s important to figure out what works best for you and your baby. After trying several types of cloth diapers, I’ve learned a few key lessons that I’m excited to share with you. Here’s a guide to help you build your perfect cloth diaper collection.

1. Start with a Variety: Covers, Pockets, All-in-Ones, and All-in-Twos

When I first began my cloth diapering journey, I thought buying a single type of diaper would simplify things. But quickly, I realized that having a variety of options is key. Here's a breakdown of the different types I tried:

• Covers: I initially thought covers would be the way to go, but soon realized they didn’t work well for us. My son tended to have accidents that made the covers non-reusable, which was frustrating since I had purchased them with the intention of reusing them.

• Pockets and All-in-Twos: These styles ended up working much better for us. Pockets are easy to clean, and the flexibility of all-in-twos made them great for our needs.

• All-in-Ones (AIOS): AIOS are super convenient because everything is in one piece, but cleaning them after messy poops can be tricky.

• Material Matters: I found that microsuede was fantastic for easy cleaning, as it helped wick away moisture and simplified the process. Now, my collection includes mostly Athletic Wicking Jersey (AWJ), which works great—except when dealing with those tough-to-clean poops!

2. Why Variety Is Important

The reason I suggest having a mix of different styles and materials is simple: you don’t want to be stuck with a lot of one kind of diaper that might not work for you. Finding what works for your baby takes some experimentation. If you only have one type and it’s not the right fit, you’re left with diapers that aren’t quite cutting it. By having a variety, you’re more likely to find the best match for your needs.

3. Cloth Diapering Doesn’t Have to Be Hard

Cloth diapering can seem like a big task, but it really comes down to how you make it. Once I found the right mix of diaper styles and materials that worked best for us, it became much easier. Cloth diapering doesn’t have to be difficult—it’s all about finding a system that works for you and your baby.

4. Stay Tuned for More Tips

In future posts, I’ll share more tips on how to clean cloth diapers on a budget, the best inserts to use, and other ways to make the process even easier.

I’m excited to share what I’ve learned and help you get the most out of your cloth diapering experience. Stay tuned for more tips and tricks to make cloth diapering simple and affordable!

Happy diapering!